First of all, you might want to make sure that your system can run it.
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Test both of the games.
I screwed myself over, I bought a game and didn't know I couldn't run it.
But I sold it to a friend for more than I bought it cuz im cool like that. ;)

I would go with GTA4, just because the other GTAs were beast.